What is CSE?
Comprehensive sexuality education (CSE),is a curriculum-based process of teaching and learning about the cognitive, emotional, physical and social aspects of sexuality. It aims to equip children and young people with knowledge, skills, attitudes and values that will empower them to: realize their health, well-being and dignity; develop respectful social and sexual relationships; consider how their choices affect their own well-being and that of others; and, understand and ensure the protection of their rights throughout their lives.
CSE should start at an early age with foundational content and skills delivered in-school and out-of-school.The content and skills grow in abstractness and explicitness with the age and developmental level of the learners.Here are some age-appropriate guidelines for CSE:
Early Childhood (Ages 3-6):
• Teach proper names for body parts: Start by using correct anatomical terms for body parts to promote understanding and body awareness.
• Teach boundaries and privacy: Emphasize the importance of personal boundaries, privacy, and respecting others' boundaries.
• Explain basic concepts: Introduce simple concepts like the differences between boys and girls and the idea that bodies change and grow.
Middle Childhood (Ages 7-10):
• Provide basic reproductive information: Teach both boys and girls about the reproductive systems, menstruation, and the basic biological processes of reproduction.
• Discuss puberty: Explain the physical changes that occur during puberty, such as the development of breasts, body hair, and changes in voice.
• Address gender stereotypes: Encourage discussions around gender stereotypes, gender roles, and the importance of equality.
Pre-adolescence (Ages 11-13):
• Expand on reproductive education: Provide more detailed information about the reproductive system, fertilization, and the menstrual cycle.
• Discuss sexual gender equity and equality to promote understanding and inclusivity.
• Teach about consent: Discuss the importance of consent, boundaries, and respecting others' autonomy.
Adolescence (Ages 14+):
• Cover contraception and STIs: Provide comprehensive information on contraception methods, including abstinence, condoms, and other forms of birth control. Discuss sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and how to prevent them.
• Address healthy relationships: Discuss the characteristics of healthy relationships, communication skills, assertiveness, and the importance of mutual respect.
• Discuss consent and sexual activity: Provide in-depth information about consent, sexual decision-making, the legal age of consent, and the importance of practicing safe and consensual sexual activity.
Its crucial to adapt the information and language used based on the individual childs level of understanding and comfort. Encourage an open and supportive environment where children and teens feel safe to ask questions and seek guidance from trusted adults or educators. Remember, sexual education should be an ongoing conversation that addresses their evolving needs and concerns as they grow older.